कल्पना है एक ऐसे देश का,
जहाँ सभी बोले एक ही भाषा.
ना हो कोई भेद भाव,जहाँ
प्रजा को मिले सभी सुविधा.
हजारों देशों को जोद्रकर बने वह देश,
आदर हो जहाँ सभी प्राचीन सभ्यताओं का.
एक भाषा जैसा एक धर्मी देश हो वो,
पालन हो जहाँ, धर्म इन्सानियेत का.
मेरे कल्पना वाले देश में सभी का आदर होगा,
प्रकृति के हर वरदान का सम्मान भी किया जाएगा.
आधुनिकता से परे नहीं होगा वो देश,
साथ ही प्राचीन ज्ञान का भी अध्यन होगा.
यह मेरी कल्पना का एक टुकरा था,जो मुझे पता है कभी सच नहीं होगा.
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
LOSS OF BUSINESS ON AP DIVISION.
With the recent tension about the division of Andhra pradesh, there has been lot of losses to the business in various sector. A minister goes on hunger strike, with the hope that he will divide AP into Telengana and AP. As per me, there should be a little change in the constitution, if committing suicide is a crime, then going on hunger strike is also a kind of suicide, so who ever does that should be immediately arrested.
I am very angry on this issue because the matter of division of AP has caused 400 crores rupees loss to the state, the one day international was postponed from visakhapatnam to Nagpur, the upcoming IT and BPO industry in the district had to shut down because of the strike called by the Andhra University students on not dividing AP.
The government of INDIA promised the European and the American clients to deliver business at any cost, they will not understand what is the situation of Indian politics. One mob consisting of students from AU forcefully entered HSBC and caused damage to the property of the office, they broke one LCD TV, caused damage to the furniture's, entering the production floor was not possible without access cards so no damage happened there. I pity on these students who instead of sparing time on studies are involved into political violence which has nothing to help them in their career. they should realise that foreign investments is greatly enhancing the economic development of the country. India has got a high respect in the international community as people who are hard working and delivering high performance. These mobs have brought national shame to us.
I am very angry on this issue because the matter of division of AP has caused 400 crores rupees loss to the state, the one day international was postponed from visakhapatnam to Nagpur, the upcoming IT and BPO industry in the district had to shut down because of the strike called by the Andhra University students on not dividing AP.
The government of INDIA promised the European and the American clients to deliver business at any cost, they will not understand what is the situation of Indian politics. One mob consisting of students from AU forcefully entered HSBC and caused damage to the property of the office, they broke one LCD TV, caused damage to the furniture's, entering the production floor was not possible without access cards so no damage happened there. I pity on these students who instead of sparing time on studies are involved into political violence which has nothing to help them in their career. they should realise that foreign investments is greatly enhancing the economic development of the country. India has got a high respect in the international community as people who are hard working and delivering high performance. These mobs have brought national shame to us.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
न चाहते हुए भी आती है, पुराणी बातें याद,
यादें जो छोर चुकी है एक गहरी दाग.
सोचा था नहीं करूंगी याद ऐसी कोई भी बात.
जो बिताई थी तुम्हारे साथ.
देती हूँ सलहा दोसरों को,
की आसान है भुलाना बीती बातों को,
पर क्या पता है यह उनको,
की हम भी कभी-कभी करते हैं याद उन लम्हों को.
था पूरा यकीन मुझे खुद पर,
भुलाने के लिए चाहिए थे कुछ पल,
पर कुछ घाव इतने गहरे होते हैं की,
छोर जाते हैं गहरी दाग ज़िंदगी भर.
9.30 pm,
23 nov 09.
यादें जो छोर चुकी है एक गहरी दाग.
सोचा था नहीं करूंगी याद ऐसी कोई भी बात.
जो बिताई थी तुम्हारे साथ.
देती हूँ सलहा दोसरों को,
की आसान है भुलाना बीती बातों को,
पर क्या पता है यह उनको,
की हम भी कभी-कभी करते हैं याद उन लम्हों को.
था पूरा यकीन मुझे खुद पर,
भुलाने के लिए चाहिए थे कुछ पल,
पर कुछ घाव इतने गहरे होते हैं की,
छोर जाते हैं गहरी दाग ज़िंदगी भर.
9.30 pm,
23 nov 09.
Sunday, November 15, 2009
VIZAG IS LIKE CAPE TOWN
I generally don't like to go to theaters to watch movies, for two reasons, one, i don't like to waste three hours in the dark hall, two, i start crying if there is any emotional scene going on. After a very long time unanimously the team planned to go for a movie, the options were either "2012" or "Tum mile". Most of us were ready for 2012, unfortunately the hall was booked for the next one week and without choice we had to go for "Tum mile".
I am not a fan of Imraan Hashmi, or Soha Ali Khan. The movie was shooted in CAPE TOWN, i was thinking how much money these film makers spend for just a three hours movie and pay Indian currency to other countries, where as i know similar location is present in India and i am proud to live in this city, Visakhapatnam has got its natural beauty like cape town, Hilly roads beside the sea, Sea coast, Ramanaidu film Studio, on the top of the hill, you name the location and Vizag has it, so why go to South Africa, when we have every thing in INDIA?
Friday, November 6, 2009
Main kisi ko acchi lagi
वजह है मेरे ख़ुशी की,
मिली है आज तारीफ किसी की.
वैसे तो तारीफ मिली है इससे पहले भी ,
पर बहुमूल्य है ये तारीफ किसी ख़ास इंसान की.
उसने पुछा - मैं अच्छी क्यूँ हूँ?
अब इसका क्या जवाब दूं?
मैं तो बचपन से ही ऐसी हूँ.
मेरे जैसे तो लाखों होंगे, उसे सिर्फ मैं अच्छी दिखी.
मुझे उसकी तारीफ इतनी अच्छी लगी की,मैंने इस पर एक कविता लिख दी.
कई सालों के बाद ही सही, पर कोई तो है जिसको मैं अच्छी लगी.
मिली है आज तारीफ किसी की.
वैसे तो तारीफ मिली है इससे पहले भी ,
पर बहुमूल्य है ये तारीफ किसी ख़ास इंसान की.
उसने पुछा - मैं अच्छी क्यूँ हूँ?
अब इसका क्या जवाब दूं?
मैं तो बचपन से ही ऐसी हूँ.
मेरे जैसे तो लाखों होंगे, उसे सिर्फ मैं अच्छी दिखी.
मुझे उसकी तारीफ इतनी अच्छी लगी की,मैंने इस पर एक कविता लिख दी.
कई सालों के बाद ही सही, पर कोई तो है जिसको मैं अच्छी लगी.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
NEGATIVES OF INDIAN RAILWAYS.
View of a overloaded train.I have been travelling frequently in the last couple of months, the mode of transportation i choose is Indian Railways, i love travelling by train, watching the countryside, its greenery's, small village and its people. Its always,a great journey when you get what you expect for the fare that you paid. In the last few journeys, i have experienced hell while travelling , they sell more tickets than the capacity of the train to carry people, travelling by A.C is no more safe, even waiting list people get into it.
I went to Puri by Okha Puri Express, every thing was fine, but the complete train was so dirty, no one came to clean the washrooms, that generally should happen in regular intervals, we boarded the same train from Puri, from where it actually starts, even then it was so dirty, when i said this to the T.T, he said "jab kisi aur ko koi problem nahi hai to aap kyun pareshan ho rahe hain? aap jaise logon ke lie to Aeroplanes bane hain". Who would continue the discussion after hearing this from the employee of the Organisation?
This durga pooja i went to Kolkata by East Coast, the train was first of all 3 hrs late, when it entered Vizag station there was not even space for the door to open, it was like this was the last journey of my life, people were completely packed up, thank God i always travel with confirmed tickets, but then whats the use, middle of the night i realised there were 2 women sitting near my feet, in a compartment where only 8 people can accommodate, there were 17 passengers.
Travelling by trains have become so troublesome, keeping aside those mishaps. Indian Railways needs proper management, instead of illiterate ministers, taking care of the railway ministry, educated young people from various, MBA schools should be hired to take care of the Railways. Train drivers should be given incentives for reaching on time, there should be regular check up for the cleanliness of all the trains in India, the train which is found clean all the time should be awarded, T.T should go for training in "how to talk to passengers", they should be reminded that passengers pay and they get their salaries.
I went to Puri by Okha Puri Express, every thing was fine, but the complete train was so dirty, no one came to clean the washrooms, that generally should happen in regular intervals, we boarded the same train from Puri, from where it actually starts, even then it was so dirty, when i said this to the T.T, he said "jab kisi aur ko koi problem nahi hai to aap kyun pareshan ho rahe hain? aap jaise logon ke lie to Aeroplanes bane hain". Who would continue the discussion after hearing this from the employee of the Organisation?
This durga pooja i went to Kolkata by East Coast, the train was first of all 3 hrs late, when it entered Vizag station there was not even space for the door to open, it was like this was the last journey of my life, people were completely packed up, thank God i always travel with confirmed tickets, but then whats the use, middle of the night i realised there were 2 women sitting near my feet, in a compartment where only 8 people can accommodate, there were 17 passengers.
Travelling by trains have become so troublesome, keeping aside those mishaps. Indian Railways needs proper management, instead of illiterate ministers, taking care of the railway ministry, educated young people from various, MBA schools should be hired to take care of the Railways. Train drivers should be given incentives for reaching on time, there should be regular check up for the cleanliness of all the trains in India, the train which is found clean all the time should be awarded, T.T should go for training in "how to talk to passengers", they should be reminded that passengers pay and they get their salaries.
Sunday, October 25, 2009
A TRUE COMEDY.
I have got a very very funny sister, no one in this world would sit quite without laughing, if she starts speaking out, all my friends likes her for this nature of hers. Tonight she told me an incident, she explained me that so well that it inspired me to write this blog. The incident is as follows:
There was a get together organised by an Uncle who is actually a music teacher, he has got many students and my mom is one of them. He invited all his students on one Sunday, as usual my mom never goes alone in any gathering, that to musical, she makes sure that either me or my sister is with her, so sister went along with mom. One by one every body sang, now it was Karmakar Unitis turn, she is kind of singer who is always given the last chance to sing because she would make the crowd move away, lol........ as human being we do react formally always in the crowd but this is not applied to insects, the Irony was, my sister saw an ANT, who lied sense less until she was singing, the moment she was done with the song the ant moved with the highest speed it could move. Sister explained me this so well which i am sure cannot be expressed in this blog. She said "u know didi! the moment unti started the song the ant stopped moving i thought it fainted with the loud noise pollution that her song created, the moment the song was over it regained its senses and ran away from the location ASAP." Ha ha ha ha ha ..........
There was a get together organised by an Uncle who is actually a music teacher, he has got many students and my mom is one of them. He invited all his students on one Sunday, as usual my mom never goes alone in any gathering, that to musical, she makes sure that either me or my sister is with her, so sister went along with mom. One by one every body sang, now it was Karmakar Unitis turn, she is kind of singer who is always given the last chance to sing because she would make the crowd move away, lol........ as human being we do react formally always in the crowd but this is not applied to insects, the Irony was, my sister saw an ANT, who lied sense less until she was singing, the moment she was done with the song the ant moved with the highest speed it could move. Sister explained me this so well which i am sure cannot be expressed in this blog. She said "u know didi! the moment unti started the song the ant stopped moving i thought it fainted with the loud noise pollution that her song created, the moment the song was over it regained its senses and ran away from the location ASAP." Ha ha ha ha ha ..........
Friday, October 23, 2009
WHAT I LEARNT.
When i was in school, college or during my university days i never won any great award for coming first in the class or winning any competitions, that doesn't means that i was always a looser, i was considered among average students. There was girl in my class who was the daughter of my fathers colleague, she always scored good marks and came first, she made it a point to discuss marks in official parties to show me down in front of all uncles and unties.That was the time when i was a student and was sure about my life, that i don't get good marks ,i will not get admission to good college and forget to see the university campus and i started to explore my self in something which was not there in her, and i found myself as a singer, this led to get more worse and i started getting marks below average.
I realised this in class 12th that coming first is not enough, a student should have enough confidence, should be more towards applications of the subject instead of mugging up things, should have good analysis skills, by the time i realised the truth it was too late. I passed 12th with first class marks, got admission to a good missionary college. During graduation at a women's college i learnt to discover the real human in me who can do every thing that a man can, can take care of parents like a son, can freak around if she wants to like a road side romeo, can get every goddie of life,thanks to the college environment. I made it to the university, i met the kind of person i was searching for as a friend from whom i can always learn, from her i learnt not to fear if you are right, to speak in gatherings, to go out and mingle up with more people, raise your voice when ever you see wrong things around you, she made me realise "think you are alone in this world so be prepared for every situation because its only you who will resolve any problem not some one else".
Now i am a professional women, here also i had to face many politics which did try to pull me back, thought of moving out of the company many times, but my previous childhood experiences reminded me to face all challenges, instead of becoming more weaker and running out of the game, i will have to survive it. Today the situation is, all my juniors come to me for any work related problems instead of approaching my boss, I am recognised as a best performer in the department, i get top ratings at office. I wish i had this kind of attitude when i was a school student then i would have defeated that class first girl. Now when i see my self and compare with that class mate of mine i feel proud, because she cannot compete with me.
There are few things in the world which is far beyond our thoughts, we see only around us, we think the whole world is against us when any thing goes wrong, even we show our anger on the Almighty, its very wrong, sinners do get punished, making some one cry for nothing will make you pay for it, that girl never got the opportunity to study after 10th std, her father became bankrupt and one day she eloped with a very cheap guy, today she is mother of two daughters.
I would conclude that be what you are, believe in what you are doing is the best, don't get bothered about things going against you, just Chuck off people who demotivates you,don't care for people who make fun of you, don't trust on any body until the person is really trust worthy, above all have full trust on GOD. It may take little time for people to understand your qualities,but one day you will be the most important to them.
I realised this in class 12th that coming first is not enough, a student should have enough confidence, should be more towards applications of the subject instead of mugging up things, should have good analysis skills, by the time i realised the truth it was too late. I passed 12th with first class marks, got admission to a good missionary college. During graduation at a women's college i learnt to discover the real human in me who can do every thing that a man can, can take care of parents like a son, can freak around if she wants to like a road side romeo, can get every goddie of life,thanks to the college environment. I made it to the university, i met the kind of person i was searching for as a friend from whom i can always learn, from her i learnt not to fear if you are right, to speak in gatherings, to go out and mingle up with more people, raise your voice when ever you see wrong things around you, she made me realise "think you are alone in this world so be prepared for every situation because its only you who will resolve any problem not some one else".
Now i am a professional women, here also i had to face many politics which did try to pull me back, thought of moving out of the company many times, but my previous childhood experiences reminded me to face all challenges, instead of becoming more weaker and running out of the game, i will have to survive it. Today the situation is, all my juniors come to me for any work related problems instead of approaching my boss, I am recognised as a best performer in the department, i get top ratings at office. I wish i had this kind of attitude when i was a school student then i would have defeated that class first girl. Now when i see my self and compare with that class mate of mine i feel proud, because she cannot compete with me.
There are few things in the world which is far beyond our thoughts, we see only around us, we think the whole world is against us when any thing goes wrong, even we show our anger on the Almighty, its very wrong, sinners do get punished, making some one cry for nothing will make you pay for it, that girl never got the opportunity to study after 10th std, her father became bankrupt and one day she eloped with a very cheap guy, today she is mother of two daughters.
I would conclude that be what you are, believe in what you are doing is the best, don't get bothered about things going against you, just Chuck off people who demotivates you,don't care for people who make fun of you, don't trust on any body until the person is really trust worthy, above all have full trust on GOD. It may take little time for people to understand your qualities,but one day you will be the most important to them.
Saturday, October 17, 2009
A PRAYER.
Generally i don't cry when i watch any emotional scene in any movie, because i know after all its just a man made story, and i am paying to enjoy those three hours of watching different moods of human nature. Today i did cry, cry like a small child, and felt like a child who watches his parents being killed in front of him and he is unable to save them. The movie "PEARL HARBOUR" is not a man made story, its real, it did happen in the year 1941, Japanese did kill Americans. i hate those minds who were behind this attack. I Don't know who died then, they were not my distant relatives, nor any of my good friends, neither will i ever meet any of their relatives in the future, but i did cry for those innocent people who were killed on that day.
I remember similar attack on our own land, 26/11/ 2008, one in the year 2001 9/11, on USA, many such attacks in different parts of the world, it really makes me cry when i come to know human killed human, its really shame on our part that we are killing our own species. I hate all those terrorists and the master mind behind all these inhuman attacks. I request the almighty to come down on to Earth and save the world from the demons called terrorists.
I remember similar attack on our own land, 26/11/ 2008, one in the year 2001 9/11, on USA, many such attacks in different parts of the world, it really makes me cry when i come to know human killed human, its really shame on our part that we are killing our own species. I hate all those terrorists and the master mind behind all these inhuman attacks. I request the almighty to come down on to Earth and save the world from the demons called terrorists.
Saturday, October 10, 2009
WHY CANT THE GUYS SAY NO TO DOWRY
Definition Of Dowry :- Dowry or Dahej is the payment in cash or/and kind by the bride's family to the bridegroom' s family along with the giving away of the bride ( called Kanyadaan) in Indian marriage . Kanyadanam is an important part of Hindu marital rites. Kanya means daughter, and dana means gift.
I Hate this word Dowry, reason? its just buying the bridegroom with huge amount of money, or in other words he sells himself, to the girls family,I am sure in all those marriages where Dowry is appreciated, love in between the two families, is never established, the bride's father saves all his earnings from the time the daughter is born, and one fine day all his savings are gone with his daughter to the grooms family. I call these families "SHAMELESS", specially the groom who cant protest against this crime, if he is not capable enough to feed himself or buy the luxuries of his life, then he has no right to enjoy the hard earned money of an elderly person who is his father in law.
I know few of my male friends who justify the Dowry system, according to them, its just a gift in the form of cash, Dude forget it, i know gifts cant be for hundreds of thousands of rupees, that is literally demanded to the brides parents, i even know guys who set their rates, if doctor 50,00,000 rupees, if Engineer 25,00,000 rupees, if he is settled in abroad then the amount is so high that even a higher middle class family father cant afford to pay the amount. I have no regrets to say "they are not Men" If you are really Educated enough you should wisely judge between right and wrong.
I am writing against this evil crime because of 2 reasons:
1. Last year one of my childhood friends, got married to a normal earning guy, i took 2 days leave from office we did lots of planning for the wedding day, on the wedding day i was all the time with her, clicked many pictures, every thing was very good, one year later they are no longer with each other, my friend Anjali is living with her widow mom and sister with a new born baby. I think of the day one year back, and today i see her without husband , the only reason is, her husband never liked her, he agreed to marry her because her mom offered the guys family a huge amount of money, which her father saved when he was alive, she did keep her promise, but the amount was little less. When i see her with her son in her lap tears fill my eyes.
2. This year there is another wedding of my childhood friend Tara, she was in love with a guy from the telugu community from a very young age, now that both the families have agreed to the marriage, the real demon came in the love story, "Dowry" the guys family demanded a 3 bedroom flat in the heart of the city, a huge cash because the boy earns good, branded clothes for all the relatives from the grooms family and a car. Lord save me, i pity on Taras father who has to give away all his earnings and savings to his son in law, come on Mr. groom this cannot be called as a gift, agree to the fact that u are demanding,making Tara feel that she took a very wrong decission to love you, are you not getting Tara? cant you see that God gifted you the women whom you love? will Tara ever forgive you for putting so much of burden on her father?
Hhhhhmmmm.......... Lord please save me from these kind of guys whom i don't consider as men, they don't have the confidence to be bold enough to go against his parents and say no to dowry.
I Hate this word Dowry, reason? its just buying the bridegroom with huge amount of money, or in other words he sells himself, to the girls family,I am sure in all those marriages where Dowry is appreciated, love in between the two families, is never established, the bride's father saves all his earnings from the time the daughter is born, and one fine day all his savings are gone with his daughter to the grooms family. I call these families "SHAMELESS", specially the groom who cant protest against this crime, if he is not capable enough to feed himself or buy the luxuries of his life, then he has no right to enjoy the hard earned money of an elderly person who is his father in law.
I know few of my male friends who justify the Dowry system, according to them, its just a gift in the form of cash, Dude forget it, i know gifts cant be for hundreds of thousands of rupees, that is literally demanded to the brides parents, i even know guys who set their rates, if doctor 50,00,000 rupees, if Engineer 25,00,000 rupees, if he is settled in abroad then the amount is so high that even a higher middle class family father cant afford to pay the amount. I have no regrets to say "they are not Men" If you are really Educated enough you should wisely judge between right and wrong.
I am writing against this evil crime because of 2 reasons:
1. Last year one of my childhood friends, got married to a normal earning guy, i took 2 days leave from office we did lots of planning for the wedding day, on the wedding day i was all the time with her, clicked many pictures, every thing was very good, one year later they are no longer with each other, my friend Anjali is living with her widow mom and sister with a new born baby. I think of the day one year back, and today i see her without husband , the only reason is, her husband never liked her, he agreed to marry her because her mom offered the guys family a huge amount of money, which her father saved when he was alive, she did keep her promise, but the amount was little less. When i see her with her son in her lap tears fill my eyes.
2. This year there is another wedding of my childhood friend Tara, she was in love with a guy from the telugu community from a very young age, now that both the families have agreed to the marriage, the real demon came in the love story, "Dowry" the guys family demanded a 3 bedroom flat in the heart of the city, a huge cash because the boy earns good, branded clothes for all the relatives from the grooms family and a car. Lord save me, i pity on Taras father who has to give away all his earnings and savings to his son in law, come on Mr. groom this cannot be called as a gift, agree to the fact that u are demanding,making Tara feel that she took a very wrong decission to love you, are you not getting Tara? cant you see that God gifted you the women whom you love? will Tara ever forgive you for putting so much of burden on her father?
Hhhhhmmmm.......... Lord please save me from these kind of guys whom i don't consider as men, they don't have the confidence to be bold enough to go against his parents and say no to dowry.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
ABOUT ME
Have you met a Cancerian woman recently? Are you a little confused as to what she really is - chirpy or somber or distant? She is all of these and still, she is none of these. More confused? A Cancerian woman has mood swings every now and then and these are some of her mood swings only. However, her basic personality traits remain the same. She is very sensitive, emotional, kind and caring. Now's the catch! Most of her traits will be hidden behind a shell of indifference and aloofness. You will have to gently coerce a Cancerian girl to get out of that shell and come into the big bad world without it. The best time to do this is in the moonlight, when there are maximum changes of catching her in her true emotions. When in love, she will be tender, womanly, timid and modest. She dislikes criticisms, can't stand rejection and gets deeply hurt by harsh words. Too much aggressiveness on your part may make her a little hesitant. A Cancer woman will never make the first move in a relationship; she only knows how to move backwards or sideways.This is because of two reasons, her shyness and the fear of being rejected. She loves her mother, so you better learn to love as well as respect her too. This female has some secrets and she won't like your prying around her personal diary. She is very insecure and will need your constant reassurance. It doesn't matter if she is the current 'Miss Universe' or has men drooling over her all the time. It is your attention and appreciation she is the most concerned about. A Cancer female is a great cook and makes better food than a five-star hotel chef. However, you will have to learn to live with her mood swings, which is not so difficult since she is so good in every other way. She is extremely loyal and will keep you happy with her warm and rich humor. Once she is committed to you, she will remain yours forever and ever. Adultery is not one of the traits of her characteristics profile. With a Cancerian woman, you will always have to be careful with words. She is very sentimental and can get hurt very easily. Then, she can cry like a two-year old baby. You will be expected to console her and wipe her tears. Cancerian women are quite careful with money. Neither will they be stingy, not totally extravagant. They have a habit of saving everything that is usable, be it money or old buttons or empty jars. They also carefully save things that have a sentimental value attached to them, like the sweater grandmother knitted on their fifth birthday. A Cancer female fiercely guards what is hers and that includes you too! However, she is not too possessive or jealous. But, she does not like sharing her love too. She is one of those people who do not crib about bad luck. She will get depressed and may shed a few tears alone, but she will be patient and wait for the time to change again, this time in her favor. Almost all the Cancerians have the desire of being pampered like a child, especially when they feel low. Don't forget to pay your Cancer girl extra attention when she is depressed, otherwise she may retreat deeper into her shell. Then, it will be very difficult to bring her back to her normal self. She will want to be told time and again that she is still desirable and you still need her. However, she is not weak and is completely capable of looking after herself. Infact, she is one of those who sacrifice all that they have, for their loved ones. She just needs some spoiling after every few days. A Cancerian woman may be fragile as far as her feelings are concerned, but when you need her, she will be as strong as the 'Rock of Gibraltar'. She will also be very protective of her children and make them feel completely secure. They will be the center of her universe and she will pamper them with her love, affection and care. The children will also be very close to her and no matter how much far they go from home, they will come back to her and she knows this. A Cancer female always needs you, but she will never get too aggressive. She knows that you may leave for a while, to follow your dreams, but in the end, she is the one you will come back to. Then, you will find her as charming as before, waiting for you with freshly baked break and hot soup. She will feed you, listen to your worries and make you smile again!
Saturday, August 15, 2009
HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY
Happy Independence day to all my readers, i am very proud to be an Indian, though i know there are many things which i am not proud of.
I was thinking why is still, India a developing country? i have heard this sentence from the time i was in class 1. its been 20 years now, its still developing, when will i hear the sentence "India is a super power", my experience in the banking sector finds a very small solution to this transition from developing to superpower. Most of the transactions in our country are done with cash which are not recorded, if they are made with debit or credit cards, they will get recorded and no merchant can save their sales tax.
Agriculture sector should be given the prime importance, i am sure India still earns most of its revenue from this sector.With Climate change, we should no more depend on the rains to shower its blessings on the rice crops, biotechnological projects should give more emphasis on developing drought resistant rice varieties.
I am sure in the last 20 years of the journey i have seen the transition from developing to superpower has gained momentum, we have almost overcome the problem of unemployment, Illiteracy, child marriage, religious riots, etc.etc.i know they still exist, but the frequency is less now a days. If the administration of the country is handled by the youth, i am sure we will reach the superpower tag very soon, we need leaders who take wise decision and implement ASAP.
I was thinking why is still, India a developing country? i have heard this sentence from the time i was in class 1. its been 20 years now, its still developing, when will i hear the sentence "India is a super power", my experience in the banking sector finds a very small solution to this transition from developing to superpower. Most of the transactions in our country are done with cash which are not recorded, if they are made with debit or credit cards, they will get recorded and no merchant can save their sales tax.
Agriculture sector should be given the prime importance, i am sure India still earns most of its revenue from this sector.With Climate change, we should no more depend on the rains to shower its blessings on the rice crops, biotechnological projects should give more emphasis on developing drought resistant rice varieties.
I am sure in the last 20 years of the journey i have seen the transition from developing to superpower has gained momentum, we have almost overcome the problem of unemployment, Illiteracy, child marriage, religious riots, etc.etc.i know they still exist, but the frequency is less now a days. If the administration of the country is handled by the youth, i am sure we will reach the superpower tag very soon, we need leaders who take wise decision and implement ASAP.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
I HAVE LIBERTY TO LIVE MY LIFE THE WAY I WANT.
Thanks to my parents , my relatives, my religion, my country, who allows me to live my life the way i want it. I am never answerable to any of the above mentioned, as to why i am selecting a particular thing to be the part of my life, what i wear, what i eat, where i go, who are my friends, which god i believe in, which religion i follow etc etc......Readers may think whats great in that every body has the right to live life the way they want to, its true in India, America,European countries and many other countries where human rights hold very strong roots and position.
There are many parents, relatives, religion, customs, and countries where human right is just a crap, most of the limitations are on women. They are not allowed to study,go out alone, get knowledge, set up their dream career, wear a smart looking dress, talk to the opposite sex, marry some one whom she likes, and what not.
I know, days are not that bad as i have mentioned above, because we meet people when we step out side our house, who are like us.As i talk to my few old friends whom i left behind in career, life style, and education, i see my self in a very better position. Anamika's mom doesn't allow her to wear jeans, my genius cousin was not allowed study because her parents thought of getting her married, my sister cannot choose to go to disco alone because her fiance want her to be only with him in public gatherings, my neighbour Neha was not allowed to work as her husband dint like her going out to office every morning, Anamika is not allowed to go for dating with her fiance because her brother is against girl and boy meeting before marriage,most Muslim women in the world are forced to wear burkha in scorching sun because their religion says that, and the list is endless...... why are all these limitation only for the women? are they bound to follow what the people, religion or country frames for them? I think these women gets pleasure and happiness in following the set rules, they don't have their own set targets, they actually don't know what they want? that's why the whole world sets or creates rules for them because they like to follow others, not listen to their heart.
There are many parents, relatives, religion, customs, and countries where human right is just a crap, most of the limitations are on women. They are not allowed to study,go out alone, get knowledge, set up their dream career, wear a smart looking dress, talk to the opposite sex, marry some one whom she likes, and what not.
I know, days are not that bad as i have mentioned above, because we meet people when we step out side our house, who are like us.As i talk to my few old friends whom i left behind in career, life style, and education, i see my self in a very better position. Anamika's mom doesn't allow her to wear jeans, my genius cousin was not allowed study because her parents thought of getting her married, my sister cannot choose to go to disco alone because her fiance want her to be only with him in public gatherings, my neighbour Neha was not allowed to work as her husband dint like her going out to office every morning, Anamika is not allowed to go for dating with her fiance because her brother is against girl and boy meeting before marriage,most Muslim women in the world are forced to wear burkha in scorching sun because their religion says that, and the list is endless...... why are all these limitation only for the women? are they bound to follow what the people, religion or country frames for them? I think these women gets pleasure and happiness in following the set rules, they don't have their own set targets, they actually don't know what they want? that's why the whole world sets or creates rules for them because they like to follow others, not listen to their heart.
Saturday, August 1, 2009
MY BEST PHOTOGRAPHY
"Rare
oppertunity".
Coffee in its initial stage
Thanks to SAIKAT, who
lended his camera that his elder brother gifted him from USA. generally i click, focusing every thing that attracts my eyes. Saikat was in the city and his camera was in my hand and i got the opportunity to click few flowers and one chameleon and i found it to be the best pic that i have ever clicked, and now i would like to share with the world.
I saw this lizard many times in my life , but i never knew that it is so attractive until i took this pic.
Monday, July 20, 2009
I DOUBT IF I AM BORING.
when ever i went to any interview for job, the first round always was a "description about yourself round" in an open forum, when ever it was my turn i said: " Hello people , my name is Arpita, i have done my Masters from AU, my hobbies are....... reading any thing that i get, i like to watch national geographic, discovery & History channel, i love to sing and apart from job i like to see my self as a singer".These were the words that i always said and its all true about me, nothing is fake. I dont like freaking out with friends on weekends until and unless he/she is very close friend of mine, i dont booze, i dont fag, i like to help my mom in the kitchen, I keep a track of whats happening around the world by togling between different news channels, briefly i have all the character of a typical CANCERIAN. Am i living a boring life? is this the reason why i dont have many friends? finally i doubt am i boring?
Thursday, June 11, 2009
GREAT LOVE STORIES.
I know "Laila Majnu", "Soni Mahivaal", "Shiri Faradh "etc. etc. as great lovers who gave up their life for their lover, i know them only by their names but never wanted to know about their love stories. i never knew that there were great and interesting love stories , where the lovers dint die finally, they fought with their respective problems for years and finally got their lover married and lived happily, until some disease killed .
I am quoting example of a great Scientist, who discovered that sound energy can be converted into electrical energy and then again sound energy and the out come was "TELEPHONE". I want to mention about "ALEXANDER GRAHAM BELL", he was a faculty of speech in a school, who fell in love with the daughter of his professor, but the professors condition was, he would give his daughter to Bell only if he manages to become a scientist and did something great, his knowledge of Electronics was not enough to think about "Variable resistance" which was mainly involved in his research, he with his co worker Mr. Watson (Electrical engineer) made the first telephone, established his own Telephone company and finally married the professors daughter. He was father of two daughter, and died due to Diabetes.
My second example is a man whose name is very popular in the world of social network, he will be the richest man in the year 2010, he is none other than our very favourite "Mr. ORKUT". He fell in love with a girl at a very early age, once they were travelling by train when they were only friends and the train met with accident, both of them were seriously injured and when ORKUT gained conscious he found himself with his parents in a different city, due to lack of communication he lost the girl, he never lost hope, he thought of making social network where people get to see others and make friendship, to his surprise he found his lost girlfriend in his own created network, which all of us know as "ORKUT".
I am really impressed with these two great love stories, where the outcome was great invention that impacted the humanity in a good way, which gave the world a reason to smile. I hate girls and boys who commit Suicide if someone fails in love, infact the person should prove to be the best so that he/she makes the world to think twice before saying no.
I am quoting example of a great Scientist, who discovered that sound energy can be converted into electrical energy and then again sound energy and the out come was "TELEPHONE". I want to mention about "ALEXANDER GRAHAM BELL", he was a faculty of speech in a school, who fell in love with the daughter of his professor, but the professors condition was, he would give his daughter to Bell only if he manages to become a scientist and did something great, his knowledge of Electronics was not enough to think about "Variable resistance" which was mainly involved in his research, he with his co worker Mr. Watson (Electrical engineer) made the first telephone, established his own Telephone company and finally married the professors daughter. He was father of two daughter, and died due to Diabetes.
My second example is a man whose name is very popular in the world of social network, he will be the richest man in the year 2010, he is none other than our very favourite "Mr. ORKUT". He fell in love with a girl at a very early age, once they were travelling by train when they were only friends and the train met with accident, both of them were seriously injured and when ORKUT gained conscious he found himself with his parents in a different city, due to lack of communication he lost the girl, he never lost hope, he thought of making social network where people get to see others and make friendship, to his surprise he found his lost girlfriend in his own created network, which all of us know as "ORKUT".
I am really impressed with these two great love stories, where the outcome was great invention that impacted the humanity in a good way, which gave the world a reason to smile. I hate girls and boys who commit Suicide if someone fails in love, infact the person should prove to be the best so that he/she makes the world to think twice before saying no.
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
I MISS UNIVERSITY DAYS.
Its been 4 years that I am working , but I always miss my school days and specially those two years of University days. I remember the we were a group of eight girls five of which are already married (SUJATA, SRAVANTHI,SWARNA,SUNITA and PRASHANTHI) now they are mothers, and the other three, me Swathi and Qurie are still single. i remember we were a very popular gang of girls in the university campus, specially me and Swathi. Going to University campus each morning was more of fun and less of attending classes.
1.I remember those days when our seniors were having introduction session with us and girls were afraid of this session as they took it as ragging, I enjoyed this kind if introduction.
2. Once Swathi managed a heavy “Bullet bike” I sat behind her and we had a tour of the Andhra University Science campus, and guys from different pure Science and applied sciences department was shocked looking at a girl driving a BULLET.
3.I remember the one and only state bus “904” that use to go till University from my place and many students waited at their respective stops to catch that bus. It was a 1hour and 45 mins journey with almost no space for air inside the bus, still we enjoyed the journey.
4. There use to be a handsome guy at the Mathematics department, on whom me and Shravanthi had a crush, and it was a challenge between both of us as who can first talk to him, and I made sure that ,I not only did friendship with him I made sure that he waits for me at the bus stop, Lol………….
5.Once Sujata had to buy a matching Dupatta for her new dress, so all of us thought of joining her for her Rs 30 shopping, the shopkeeper thought he was getting a number of customer but lol…….. it was after so much of chik chik, we bought only a Rs 30 worth dupatta, Lol………….
6.I and Swathi were doing a small part time job, she was with “DECCAN CHRONICLE” and I was a tuition Teacher at the same time was giving programmes at AIR. We went to shopping malls for window shopping and told each other about our plans of buying all good dresses once we started earning.
Many more memories which is beyond the scope of my patience to type , but I miss all those days when we din’t have money in pocket still we had dream to buy every thing, now we have money, credit cards and debit cards but no friends to freak out. So many different types of dresses, but no friends to appreciate when I wear and go out. Bus use to be packed up with all friends and now we can afford a Car but no friends,we drive it all alone. I wish I get those days back which is IMPOSSIBLE.
1.I remember those days when our seniors were having introduction session with us and girls were afraid of this session as they took it as ragging, I enjoyed this kind if introduction.
2. Once Swathi managed a heavy “Bullet bike” I sat behind her and we had a tour of the Andhra University Science campus, and guys from different pure Science and applied sciences department was shocked looking at a girl driving a BULLET.
3.I remember the one and only state bus “904” that use to go till University from my place and many students waited at their respective stops to catch that bus. It was a 1hour and 45 mins journey with almost no space for air inside the bus, still we enjoyed the journey.
4. There use to be a handsome guy at the Mathematics department, on whom me and Shravanthi had a crush, and it was a challenge between both of us as who can first talk to him, and I made sure that ,I not only did friendship with him I made sure that he waits for me at the bus stop, Lol………….
5.Once Sujata had to buy a matching Dupatta for her new dress, so all of us thought of joining her for her Rs 30 shopping, the shopkeeper thought he was getting a number of customer but lol…….. it was after so much of chik chik, we bought only a Rs 30 worth dupatta, Lol………….
6.I and Swathi were doing a small part time job, she was with “DECCAN CHRONICLE” and I was a tuition Teacher at the same time was giving programmes at AIR. We went to shopping malls for window shopping and told each other about our plans of buying all good dresses once we started earning.
Many more memories which is beyond the scope of my patience to type , but I miss all those days when we din’t have money in pocket still we had dream to buy every thing, now we have money, credit cards and debit cards but no friends to freak out. So many different types of dresses, but no friends to appreciate when I wear and go out. Bus use to be packed up with all friends and now we can afford a Car but no friends,we drive it all alone. I wish I get those days back which is IMPOSSIBLE.
Friday, June 5, 2009
HAPPY WITH THE NEW GOVERNMENT
I don't know how many of us are really happy with the new government, but i am really happy with the steps, targets/goals that they have set up for themselves, and look the energy of the the leaders, they are going to implement it within 100 days.
1. NATIONAL IDENTITY CARD
2.RICE FOR Rs 3 FOR THE POORS
3. BRINGING THE MONEY BACK TO INDIA THAT'S HELD
SOMEWHERE ELSE
4.NATIONAL SECURITY
5.FOOD AND HEALTH CARE.
These were the main concern that pooped on the TV screen, i am sure they have more in store.
They have just set their goals and already the government officers have started implementing them, recently the SIM of 6 Reliance customers were deactivated in J&K. High court judge of Punjab was traced in accepting bribe. Waw, i appreciate the efficiency of this govt.
DID I SAY SOMETHING WRONG?
Me and my colleague were travelling to office in the cab when he raised the topic of people suffering in Bangladesh with the devastating effects of Hurricane AILA, he was feeling very bad about the people and their sufferings. I know my self, that i am an emotional person , but i dint feel sad about the people suffering over there, suddenly the thought came in my mind that, they are facing the consequences of the sin that they had done, when Bangladeshis come to India and blasts bomb here in my country? is that not bad? do they really feel bad about it? so even i don't have to pity on them.
What ever they build through out the year, one such hurricane washes away every thing leaving them to live in poverty. India has never participated in any war until someone really bothers our peace, and that's why today we are the rich among our neighbouring countries. God has blessed us with all powers he has and today we are in the race of super power countries.
If today India has gained respect in the international community, the reason behind is hard working men and women, who believe in "live and let others live", we don't bother any body, neither we think of going and planting bombs in other countries. Pakistanis & Bangladeshis read this carefully, if you or your government doesn't stop this act of disturbing India's growth, believe me even you people will never prosper, and the best example is the hurricane every year in Bangladesh and the everlasting tension in Pakistan between the terrorist and the Government.
What ever they build through out the year, one such hurricane washes away every thing leaving them to live in poverty. India has never participated in any war until someone really bothers our peace, and that's why today we are the rich among our neighbouring countries. God has blessed us with all powers he has and today we are in the race of super power countries.
If today India has gained respect in the international community, the reason behind is hard working men and women, who believe in "live and let others live", we don't bother any body, neither we think of going and planting bombs in other countries. Pakistanis & Bangladeshis read this carefully, if you or your government doesn't stop this act of disturbing India's growth, believe me even you people will never prosper, and the best example is the hurricane every year in Bangladesh and the everlasting tension in Pakistan between the terrorist and the Government.
Monday, May 25, 2009
LONG LIVE DC, LONG LIVE LALIT MODI, LONG LIVE IPL, LONG LIVE INDIA.
Deccan Chargers the unstoppables.
I am proud once again being an Indian, Yesterday Deccan Charges won the IPL 2009, the whole world had INDIA in their mind through out the series of IPL, Andhra Pradesh had made its identity in the IPL. Look at the closing ceremony, Kathrina's dance on the "JAI HO" the costumes, designed by Indian deziners, the "MISS IPL 2009 SA" contest all the outfit worn had indian bright colours. Every thing about the IPL has made India proud. Thanks to Lalit Modi, the man who is behind this spectacular entertainment.India and Indians have made a place in the minds and hearts of millions. I want every Indian to keep up the focus, and the focus should be to become the super power.Long live all those who believe in dreaming high for the country.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
PARENTS WHOM I RESPECT
I Respect these parents….
I met many parents , among all of them I really respect three , I found a common thing among these parents, “do and die for their children” for these mom’s and dad’s their children is their world, no matter what ever they have to sacrifice, what ever they do is just to see the smiling face of their children.
I see parents sacrificing many things for their daughters and son’s, I respect and appreciate them for that, but then nothing is great in that, every parents does that, did they do any thing out of the box to see the child happy?
I know three parents who really do things out of the box to bring smile on the child’s face. First in the list is mr and mrs Kashyap, they are my class mates parents, the family is a Haryanvi brahman, for them caste really matters, but just for their son’s happiness and will, they agreed to make a telugu girl as their daughter in law, going against all social stigma, for them more than family and caste was their son’s smiling face, they find a happy world when the son is happy.now Kapil and Dipthi are happy couple and they love their respective inlaws very much.
Second is my best friends parents, she is very very ambitious girl and is least bothered about what others will think about not getting married yet. On the other side her parents lives in an orthodox society where more than career,marriage is important, people still believes that marriage is a great achievement, but then her parents are with Swathi and supports her dreams. In any public gathereing I am sure people do ask her parents about why she is not marrying, but then they are happy with their daughter decission because there is where she is happy.
Third is my parents, i am 26 years old and right age to marry, but then for me, existence of love is very important before marriage, so I asked time from them and there is no dead line, I want to love a man, miss his absence, only then I would marry him, because I just cant live with some one whom I don’t love. People in indian society are soooooo orthodox that they don’t understand the fact that a girl can also have dreams. Few of my very close friends said that “love automatically happens after marriage ,in arranged marriage” I think that becomes an obligation to love some one because you don’t have any other option, and I don’t respect this love, infact its not love. I know all my parents friends says in their absence, that they are living on their daughters money, but who will tell them that its my choice to wait for the right person. My parents love to see me happy, they want me to live my life the way I want it, so they damn care for what others say…..
I bow thousands times in front of these parents for whom smile on the childs face is world to them. I pity on those children whose parents think of the society first and then take decission, if society is soo important for them then they had no rights to become parents. I really wish every son and daugher are blessed with parents who least care for society.
I met many parents , among all of them I really respect three , I found a common thing among these parents, “do and die for their children” for these mom’s and dad’s their children is their world, no matter what ever they have to sacrifice, what ever they do is just to see the smiling face of their children.
I see parents sacrificing many things for their daughters and son’s, I respect and appreciate them for that, but then nothing is great in that, every parents does that, did they do any thing out of the box to see the child happy?
I know three parents who really do things out of the box to bring smile on the child’s face. First in the list is mr and mrs Kashyap, they are my class mates parents, the family is a Haryanvi brahman, for them caste really matters, but just for their son’s happiness and will, they agreed to make a telugu girl as their daughter in law, going against all social stigma, for them more than family and caste was their son’s smiling face, they find a happy world when the son is happy.now Kapil and Dipthi are happy couple and they love their respective inlaws very much.
Second is my best friends parents, she is very very ambitious girl and is least bothered about what others will think about not getting married yet. On the other side her parents lives in an orthodox society where more than career,marriage is important, people still believes that marriage is a great achievement, but then her parents are with Swathi and supports her dreams. In any public gathereing I am sure people do ask her parents about why she is not marrying, but then they are happy with their daughter decission because there is where she is happy.
Third is my parents, i am 26 years old and right age to marry, but then for me, existence of love is very important before marriage, so I asked time from them and there is no dead line, I want to love a man, miss his absence, only then I would marry him, because I just cant live with some one whom I don’t love. People in indian society are soooooo orthodox that they don’t understand the fact that a girl can also have dreams. Few of my very close friends said that “love automatically happens after marriage ,in arranged marriage” I think that becomes an obligation to love some one because you don’t have any other option, and I don’t respect this love, infact its not love. I know all my parents friends says in their absence, that they are living on their daughters money, but who will tell them that its my choice to wait for the right person. My parents love to see me happy, they want me to live my life the way I want it, so they damn care for what others say…..
I bow thousands times in front of these parents for whom smile on the childs face is world to them. I pity on those children whose parents think of the society first and then take decission, if society is soo important for them then they had no rights to become parents. I really wish every son and daugher are blessed with parents who least care for society.
I HATE THE SOCIETY THAT I AM LIVING IN
Yes i really hate the society where i am living in........
For the elders here, marriage is like a great achievement its valued more than a great career, more than annual appraisal in the company, more than a degree course from IIM or IIT. Impossible people, uncivilized, uncultured, stagnated mentality, i hate them. I don't understand, from where do they get time to think about the neighbour's daughter? at the same time i feel proud, because i am the thought of every household in my locality. What ever it is, let the whole world say every bad things about me, i am least bothered about my marriage.
I agree to the fact that even i want to have my family but let the time come, just because people want me to get married i just cant marry any one i get to know, i have my set of expectation, until i am comfortable living with some one i wont marry, i promise myself to give a life where more than money and property would be UNCONDITIONAL love, like the way i saw in my parents. I want my children to take me as an idol to lead their life in future, i don't want to end up in living with a person, just for the sake of.
My good friend suggested me to get married because in arrange marriage, love happens later, i don't agree to it, because by chance that person happens to not meet my expectation, then life becomes hell and later in the life if i get to meet a person with all those qualities i would feel sorry for not waiting for him, and i don't want to see my self in a situation where i cant live neither can leave the person with whom i am bound to live, just because of the F....k society and of it F...K culture. I have decided and promised myself to be single rather to get involved in a compromising situation, top of every thing i cant allow a person to touch me whom i cant/don't love.
For the elders here, marriage is like a great achievement its valued more than a great career, more than annual appraisal in the company, more than a degree course from IIM or IIT. Impossible people, uncivilized, uncultured, stagnated mentality, i hate them. I don't understand, from where do they get time to think about the neighbour's daughter? at the same time i feel proud, because i am the thought of every household in my locality. What ever it is, let the whole world say every bad things about me, i am least bothered about my marriage.
I agree to the fact that even i want to have my family but let the time come, just because people want me to get married i just cant marry any one i get to know, i have my set of expectation, until i am comfortable living with some one i wont marry, i promise myself to give a life where more than money and property would be UNCONDITIONAL love, like the way i saw in my parents. I want my children to take me as an idol to lead their life in future, i don't want to end up in living with a person, just for the sake of.
My good friend suggested me to get married because in arrange marriage, love happens later, i don't agree to it, because by chance that person happens to not meet my expectation, then life becomes hell and later in the life if i get to meet a person with all those qualities i would feel sorry for not waiting for him, and i don't want to see my self in a situation where i cant live neither can leave the person with whom i am bound to live, just because of the F....k society and of it F...K culture. I have decided and promised myself to be single rather to get involved in a compromising situation, top of every thing i cant allow a person to touch me whom i cant/don't love.
Monday, May 11, 2009
I AM OPTIMSTIC
I believe that life is a rose plant, where we have thorns every here and there, and only few roses, I mean, more of sorrows and less happiness, and its really very very hard to fulfill all your dreams to come true in now a days world.
I was not the same six years back, I had dreams, I was happy, I was friendly to every one I met, made friends with every one, missed college fun on Sundays, missed the fun in the university campus, and what not, I was truly very very happy, I had a source of income just few hundreds rupees to take care of my daily expenses, I believed strongly in true love, where missing him intensified my love for him more than before. I believed that true love is always respected and admired in the world. I had strong believe that hard work reaps good result………so, I had confidence in me that what ever I was doing was right and the rest of the world who din’t believe on what I was following or believing was wrong.
Today I a 26 years old and 2 months later I will be living on this earth for 27 years, believes that I was really fool 6 years back, to be so good and believing on good things, respecting moral values, and ignoring wrong things. Today I have no dreams, each day is filled with lots of tensions, I remain stranger to every one I meet, I wait for weekends to be at home, and I love to miss the set target by boss, in other words just doing every thing that I am assigned to do on this earth. I earn more than what I actually need. Today I believe that in the 20th century true love is only found in fairy tales, no one has got the time to miss you, and if you miss some one it’s the most foolish thing that one can do. Life thought me, hard work is done by brainless people, and smart work is appreciated. The 1st paragraph is just opposite to the 2nd paragraph, though I realized the bitter reality of life, but still I love the life of the first Para. I pray god to whip his magic wand and take the world back to where Love, Emotions, Friendship, Honesty, Brotherhood, Respect for each other, etc. is appreciated. I know god does that( whips his magic wand) on few people who have faith on him, it did happen to me, I have a good friend, I am rewarded and recognized for my hard work at office, few of my dreams did come true, now waiting for few more things.
I was not the same six years back, I had dreams, I was happy, I was friendly to every one I met, made friends with every one, missed college fun on Sundays, missed the fun in the university campus, and what not, I was truly very very happy, I had a source of income just few hundreds rupees to take care of my daily expenses, I believed strongly in true love, where missing him intensified my love for him more than before. I believed that true love is always respected and admired in the world. I had strong believe that hard work reaps good result………so, I had confidence in me that what ever I was doing was right and the rest of the world who din’t believe on what I was following or believing was wrong.
Today I a 26 years old and 2 months later I will be living on this earth for 27 years, believes that I was really fool 6 years back, to be so good and believing on good things, respecting moral values, and ignoring wrong things. Today I have no dreams, each day is filled with lots of tensions, I remain stranger to every one I meet, I wait for weekends to be at home, and I love to miss the set target by boss, in other words just doing every thing that I am assigned to do on this earth. I earn more than what I actually need. Today I believe that in the 20th century true love is only found in fairy tales, no one has got the time to miss you, and if you miss some one it’s the most foolish thing that one can do. Life thought me, hard work is done by brainless people, and smart work is appreciated. The 1st paragraph is just opposite to the 2nd paragraph, though I realized the bitter reality of life, but still I love the life of the first Para. I pray god to whip his magic wand and take the world back to where Love, Emotions, Friendship, Honesty, Brotherhood, Respect for each other, etc. is appreciated. I know god does that( whips his magic wand) on few people who have faith on him, it did happen to me, I have a good friend, I am rewarded and recognized for my hard work at office, few of my dreams did come true, now waiting for few more things.
Thursday, April 30, 2009
SECULAR INDIA
Is this the day for which God created this beautiful Earth? Every where i see, i see human killing other human.I need not go very far, just look at Srilanka, mass human killing, and the reason? simple, just they want Tamil's in their country. Its been so many years , i don't even remember that Mr. Prabhakaran is fighting for the rights of the Tamils in Srilanka, i don't find him doing any thing wrong in asking for the rights, its only the way he has choosed is wrong.......Had the Srilankan government given equal opportunity to every body irrespective of their nationalities, there would have been no Prabhakaran, no LTTE, no mass human murder.
That was not it and just i see towards Pakistan, Aeriel bombing to swipe out Taliban's from their hideouts, don't know how many Taliban's are killed but innocent people are suffering in this act of the Pakistani government. If Pakistan was strict from the beginning against terror and terrorist, i am sure, the present situation would not have been there.
I thank God that i am an Indian, which is secular and every one is heard if not soon little late, its only in India that every religion enjoys equal right, every one enjoys the power of selecting their own leader. Forgetting what ever happened in the past, like all those Hindu Muslim riots,because now people started realising, that fighting for religion will not fetch happy life, its only good education, respect for each other, working together, is the only way to become a super power. I would write that every country should learn from India the way different people from different religion lives here as neighbours and help each other in need.
That was not it and just i see towards Pakistan, Aeriel bombing to swipe out Taliban's from their hideouts, don't know how many Taliban's are killed but innocent people are suffering in this act of the Pakistani government. If Pakistan was strict from the beginning against terror and terrorist, i am sure, the present situation would not have been there.
I thank God that i am an Indian, which is secular and every one is heard if not soon little late, its only in India that every religion enjoys equal right, every one enjoys the power of selecting their own leader. Forgetting what ever happened in the past, like all those Hindu Muslim riots,because now people started realising, that fighting for religion will not fetch happy life, its only good education, respect for each other, working together, is the only way to become a super power. I would write that every country should learn from India the way different people from different religion lives here as neighbours and help each other in need.
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
I COULD NOT CASTE MY VOTE
Yes i could not caste my vote today, i took all the pains to search the polling booth for my area, then when i went there they could not find my name there, so there was no way that i can vote, i was deprived of my fundamental right. Later i found the reason was, because when they came for the verification we moved from the place where we lived earlier. If this the way our election commission works, i am sure only 30% of the citizens do caste Vote and 70% of them just accept who ever comes to power.
Now a days at least one member of every family lives in some other part of the country for better job option, where as his/her name still appears in the place of birth, this is not how it should work, as long as we have a voters card/PAN card/PASSPORT, we should be eligible to vote in any part of the country. I am really very sad that i could not vote and select my leader, now, i will have to accept who ever comes to power.Election commission should change the way its currently working.
Now a days at least one member of every family lives in some other part of the country for better job option, where as his/her name still appears in the place of birth, this is not how it should work, as long as we have a voters card/PAN card/PASSPORT, we should be eligible to vote in any part of the country. I am really very sad that i could not vote and select my leader, now, i will have to accept who ever comes to power.Election commission should change the way its currently working.
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MEMORIES OF VARIOUS STATES THAT I VISITED
As a child i was one of those lucky kids who got the chance to live in different states and cities in India. My father was frequently posted to different cities of different states, I have lived in Assam, Uttar Pradesh, Andhra Pradesh. Westbengal is my birth place and native place , i have been to uttaraanchal too. I liked almost every place because every state and city was different from each other.
Uttar Pradesh didn't leave a good impression on me , We lived there for three years in a city called BAREILLY. People over there are very narrow minded, they value friendship, but women are not very well treated in the family. Being a Bengali learning music is a part of our culture, people heard me practising early morning and asked my mom why do u your daughter learn music? In BAREILLY i first saw a murder on the street, dead body lying on the street near the drain and blood flowing. I was always treated as a out sider in Bareilly. Here i first went to school riding a bicycle.
I am still living here from the last
WEST BENGAL:
Hmmmm....Its my native place, native place of my parents, grand parents, and great grand parents....i am not at all comfortable living here because of its population and pollution, extremely fast life and lack of english education (10 years back). Politics is a very interesting topic among bengalis, i find my self stranger in my native place. My parents can leave me alone for any place that i like to go to, apart from KOLKATA. With all its negatives i still love to visit Kolkata frequently, i love the small villages, Earthern huts, so many ponds, the music in the air, Robindro songeet, Rich bengali culture and of course the sweet language.
I went to NAINITAAL for only a visit after my 10 std board exam. Its a tourist place so, i can only say its a pretty hill station. Later i saw Naini itaal in various movies.
ASSAM:
I liked Assam because of its greenary, there i experienced the cold winters of north eastern India, I saw fresh vegetables in the market direct from the farms. Mekla saaris still attracts me, it was my first Kendriya Vidyalaya in Assam, i learnt many things from KV BRPL, i got recognisation in many cultural activities, I experienced Riots, saw refugees for the first time, every commodity was so expensive there. I still long to see the bridge over the Brahmaputra, the wide river which has island in between. My first crush in school.
UTTAR PRADESH:
Uttar Pradesh didn't leave a good impression on me , We lived there for three years in a city called BAREILLY. People over there are very narrow minded, they value friendship, but women are not very well treated in the family. Being a Bengali learning music is a part of our culture, people heard me practising early morning and asked my mom why do u your daughter learn music? In BAREILLY i first saw a murder on the street, dead body lying on the street near the drain and blood flowing. I was always treated as a out sider in Bareilly. Here i first went to school riding a bicycle. ANDHRA PRADESH:
VISAKHAPATNAM
I am still living here from the last twenty years ,I live in Visakhapatnam, most of my education was here, thank god that i got to go to good reputated college and UNIVERSITY. (Andhra University), this city has given me many good friends and of course my best friend. I owe to this city, this city gave me the oppertunity to earn money. Visakhapatnam is a lovely place u name something and u find it here, Hills, Ocean, Forest, Wild life sanctuary,good educational institutions, heavy industries, star hotels, and of course helping people. I never felt that i am not a TELUGU speaking person, all those people whom i ever met in Vizag treated me the way they would treat a Telugu.
RAJAHMUNDRY:
Its a dist. in AP where i spent SIX months of my life and six months is really very small time to understand people and the life in the city. One thing i like about this city is people are very hard working when i was there in 1997, it was a small town, i went there again in 2004 and this time i saw a metamorphised City, with good number of hotels, well constructed apartments, tourism, good roads. i was surprised to see such a drastic change within six years. RIVER GODAVARY attracts me a lot.
HYDERABAD:
I lived here for fifteen months and i saw drastic changes in me, i became very professional, indipendent, life taught me almost every thing , i enjoyed the corporate life here.
WEST BENGAL:
Hmmmm....Its my native place, native place of my parents, grand parents, and great grand parents....i am not at all comfortable living here because of its population and pollution, extremely fast life and lack of english education (10 years back). Politics is a very interesting topic among bengalis, i find my self stranger in my native place. My parents can leave me alone for any place that i like to go to, apart from KOLKATA. With all its negatives i still love to visit Kolkata frequently, i love the small villages, Earthern huts, so many ponds, the music in the air, Robindro songeet, Rich bengali culture and of course the sweet language.
Crowded Howrah Bridge:
UTTARANCHAL:
UTTARANCHAL:
I went to NAINITAAL for only a visit after my 10 std board exam. Its a tourist place so, i can only say its a pretty hill station. Later i saw Naini itaal in various movies.
Friday, April 10, 2009
Miss a male lover
Most of the office staff is preparing for the DJ nite, "DJ AKEEL " is the DJ here at VIZAG, every one has got a partner in fact a person whom they love, except me, today i really missed a lover in my life. I would danced with the peppy numbers of the DJ holding his hands, getting lost in a romantic mood, i would find myself so protected with him, he would ask me to stay for a while "please don't go, aur thori der ruk jao", he wud always miss me, like i would do in his absence. Offffff.......... huh.........i know life is more of thorns than roses. I can't compromise my love just for one simple DJ nite, there will be lots of DJ nite's in future but then, love happens only once and i will be very careful to shower my love on a deserving person.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Hate those who dont respect women.
It was really very very bad and shame on our part that we still live among those people who don't respect women, her feelings, her self respect. The video is all over in the Internet when the whole world saw a 17 year old girl was beaten by a man (this happens only when Taliban is in power) in Pakistan. Shameless people, just because she refused to get married? i feel like using all profanities that exist on this earth, for the community that encourages all this inhuman activity on women, do they forget at a later age, that life on this earth continues only because of women?
I really appreciate the courage and boldness of Mr. Manmohan Singh, who openly used the word "EPICENTRE" for Pakistan who encourages all inhuman activities, out of which the most important is TERRORISM. He said "Pakistan is the EPICENTRE of terrorism" very true, i would add one more "Its EPICENTRE where all inhuman activities are manufactured", how dare a 17 year girl can be beaten publicly?
I really appreciate the courage and boldness of Mr. Manmohan Singh, who openly used the word "EPICENTRE" for Pakistan who encourages all inhuman activities, out of which the most important is TERRORISM. He said "Pakistan is the EPICENTRE of terrorism" very true, i would add one more "Its EPICENTRE where all inhuman activities are manufactured", how dare a 17 year girl can be beaten publicly?
Sunday, April 5, 2009
Deserving candidate for th epost of PM
Its the election time and again a big headache whom to vote? for me the deserving candidate for the post of PM should have the following characteristics,
1. He should be a public ICON,
2.He should be physically and mentally very well balanced, away from any illness.
3. People would love to listen to him/her at rallies (not boring speeches)
4. He should be very much focused on India's economic development.
5. His first focus should be on projects like "ANTI-TERRORISM"
6.He need not be an experienced person in politics, but should be a good human being.
7.He should focus on projects that improves the condition of the farmers.
I am looking for all these criteria, i really don't want any old man as a leader of this country, who cant even take care of themselves, what will they care or can do for the country? I really want RAHUL GANDHI to be the PM this time, i wish OMAR ABDULLAH was one among the contestant for the PM post.
1. He should be a public ICON,
2.He should be physically and mentally very well balanced, away from any illness.
3. People would love to listen to him/her at rallies (not boring speeches)
4. He should be very much focused on India's economic development.
5. His first focus should be on projects like "ANTI-TERRORISM"
6.He need not be an experienced person in politics, but should be a good human being.
7.He should focus on projects that improves the condition of the farmers.
I am looking for all these criteria, i really don't want any old man as a leader of this country, who cant even take care of themselves, what will they care or can do for the country? I really want RAHUL GANDHI to be the PM this time, i wish OMAR ABDULLAH was one among the contestant for the PM post.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
I AM UPSET ON OUR LEADERS
Dubai has always been a dream land for me,i have come to know about this city from many sources, National geography channel's programme " Mega structure" is the one which has made me go mad about Dubai, with its film on the "PROJECT WORLD", waw it was amazing, i never knew, that leaders of Dubai are so much focused on their economic development, they very well know the future ,when all the Oil wells will dry, they have turned the future towards tourism industry and before the wells dry, they started working to achieve their goals. I appreciate the Sultan for such a forecast, i bow in front of him with respect.
Why don't our leaders make India the powerful country, Oil is the source of Dubai's income and food (Agricultural products ) is India's strength, i am sure every human in this world first thinks of buying food before going to an oil station, so in that context India should be richer than Dubai. Unfortunately agricultural sector faces every natural calamity, every bribes, Farmers suicide, what not it faces...........Its really shame on our part that we select such leaders who just want to have the seat. If the central govt starts funding for projects like converting unused land for cultivation i am sure even the deserts will produce food for the world and even India will have rich man made places like Palm island may be more beautiful than that. I have faith on India's educational system which produces scientists and engineers who can make India rich and of course Worlds most beautiful Country.
Why don't our leaders make India the powerful country, Oil is the source of Dubai's income and food (Agricultural products ) is India's strength, i am sure every human in this world first thinks of buying food before going to an oil station, so in that context India should be richer than Dubai. Unfortunately agricultural sector faces every natural calamity, every bribes, Farmers suicide, what not it faces...........Its really shame on our part that we select such leaders who just want to have the seat. If the central govt starts funding for projects like converting unused land for cultivation i am sure even the deserts will produce food for the world and even India will have rich man made places like Palm island may be more beautiful than that. I have faith on India's educational system which produces scientists and engineers who can make India rich and of course Worlds most beautiful Country.
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