LONG LIVE DC, LONG LIVE LALIT MODI, LONG LIVE IPL, LONG LIVE INDIA.

Deccan Chargers the unstoppables.

I am proud once again being an Indian, Yesterday Deccan Charges won the IPL 2009, the whole world had INDIA in their mind through out the series of IPL, Andhra Pradesh had made its identity in the IPL. Look at the closing ceremony, Kathrina's dance on the "JAI HO" the costumes, designed by Indian deziners, the "MISS IPL 2009 SA" contest all the outfit worn had indian bright colours. Every thing about the IPL has made India proud. Thanks to Lalit Modi, the man who is behind this spectacular entertainment.

India and Indians have made a place in the minds and hearts of millions. I want every Indian to keep up the focus, and the focus should be to become the super power.Long live all those who believe in dreaming high for the country.

PARENTS WHOM I RESPECT

I Respect these parents….
I met many parents , among all of them I really respect three , I found a common thing among these parents, “do and die for their children” for these mom’s and dad’s their children is their world, no matter what ever they have to sacrifice, what ever they do is just to see the smiling face of their children.
I see parents sacrificing many things for their daughters and son’s, I respect and appreciate them for that, but then nothing is great in that, every parents does that, did they do any thing out of the box to see the child happy?

I know three parents who really do things out of the box to bring smile on the child’s face. First in the list is mr and mrs Kashyap, they are my class mates parents, the family is a Haryanvi brahman, for them caste really matters, but just for their son’s happiness and will, they agreed to make a telugu girl as their daughter in law, going against all social stigma, for them more than family and caste was their son’s smiling face, they find a happy world when the son is happy.now Kapil and Dipthi are happy couple and they love their respective inlaws very much.
Second is my best friends parents, she is very very ambitious girl and is least bothered about what others will think about not getting married yet. On the other side her parents lives in an orthodox society where more than career,marriage is important, people still believes that marriage is a great achievement, but then her parents are with Swathi and supports her dreams. In any public gathereing I am sure people do ask her parents about why she is not marrying, but then they are happy with their daughter decission because there is where she is happy.

Third is my parents, i am 26 years old and right age to marry, but then for me, existence of love is very important before marriage, so I asked time from them and there is no dead line, I want to love a man, miss his absence, only then I would marry him, because I just cant live with some one whom I don’t love. People in indian society are soooooo orthodox that they don’t understand the fact that a girl can also have dreams. Few of my very close friends said that “love automatically happens after marriage ,in arranged marriage” I think that becomes an obligation to love some one because you don’t have any other option, and I don’t respect this love, infact its not love. I know all my parents friends says in their absence, that they are living on their daughters money, but who will tell them that its my choice to wait for the right person. My parents love to see me happy, they want me to live my life the way I want it, so they damn care for what others say…..
I bow thousands times in front of these parents for whom smile on the childs face is world to them. I pity on those children whose parents think of the society first and then take decission, if society is soo important for them then they had no rights to become parents. I really wish every son and daugher are blessed with parents who least care for society.

I HATE THE SOCIETY THAT I AM LIVING IN

Yes i really hate the society where i am living in........
For the elders here, marriage is like a great achievement its valued more than a great career, more than annual appraisal in the company, more than a degree course from IIM or IIT. Impossible people, uncivilized, uncultured, stagnated mentality, i hate them. I don't understand, from where do they get time to think about the neighbour's daughter? at the same time i feel proud, because i am the thought of every household in my locality. What ever it is, let the whole world say every bad things about me, i am least bothered about my marriage.

I agree to the fact that even i want to have my family but let the time come, just because people want me to get married i just cant marry any one i get to know, i have my set of expectation, until i am comfortable living with some one i wont marry, i promise myself to give a life where more than money and property would be UNCONDITIONAL love, like the way i saw in my parents. I want my children to take me as an idol to lead their life in future, i don't want to end up in living with a person, just for the sake of.

My good friend suggested me to get married because in arrange marriage, love happens later, i don't agree to it, because by chance that person happens to not meet my expectation, then life becomes hell and later in the life if i get to meet a person with all those qualities i would feel sorry for not waiting for him, and i don't want to see my self in a situation where i cant live neither can leave the person with whom i am bound to live, just because of the F....k society and of it F...K culture. I have decided and promised myself to be single rather to get involved in a compromising situation, top of every thing i cant allow a person to touch me whom i cant/don't love.

I AM OPTIMSTIC

I believe that life is a rose plant, where we have thorns every here and there, and only few roses, I mean, more of sorrows and less happiness, and its really very very hard to fulfill all your dreams to come true in now a days world.

I was not the same six years back, I had dreams, I was happy, I was friendly to every one I met, made friends with every one, missed college fun on Sundays, missed the fun in the university campus, and what not, I was truly very very happy, I had a source of income just few hundreds rupees to take care of my daily expenses, I believed strongly in true love, where missing him intensified my love for him more than before. I believed that true love is always respected and admired in the world. I had strong believe that hard work reaps good result………so, I had confidence in me that what ever I was doing was right and the rest of the world who din’t believe on what I was following or believing was wrong.

Today I a 26 years old and 2 months later I will be living on this earth for 27 years, believes that I was really fool 6 years back, to be so good and believing on good things, respecting moral values, and ignoring wrong things. Today I have no dreams, each day is filled with lots of tensions, I remain stranger to every one I meet, I wait for weekends to be at home, and I love to miss the set target by boss, in other words just doing every thing that I am assigned to do on this earth. I earn more than what I actually need. Today I believe that in the 20th century true love is only found in fairy tales, no one has got the time to miss you, and if you miss some one it’s the most foolish thing that one can do. Life thought me, hard work is done by brainless people, and smart work is appreciated. The 1st paragraph is just opposite to the 2nd paragraph, though I realized the bitter reality of life, but still I love the life of the first Para. I pray god to whip his magic wand and take the world back to where Love, Emotions, Friendship, Honesty, Brotherhood, Respect for each other, etc. is appreciated. I know god does that( whips his magic wand) on few people who have faith on him, it did happen to me, I have a good friend, I am rewarded and recognized for my hard work at office, few of my dreams did come true, now waiting for few more things.