WHAT I LEARNT.

When i was in school, college or during my university days i never won any great award for coming first in the class or winning any competitions, that doesn't means that i was always a looser, i was considered among average students. There was girl in my class who was the daughter of my fathers colleague, she always scored good marks and came first, she made it a point to discuss marks in official parties to show me down in front of all uncles and unties.That was the time when i was a student and was sure about my life, that i don't get good marks ,i will not get admission to good college and forget to see the university campus and i started to explore my self in something which was not there in her, and i found myself as a singer, this led to get more worse and i started getting marks below average.

I realised this in class 12th that coming first is not enough, a student should have enough confidence, should be more towards applications of the subject instead of mugging up things, should have good analysis skills, by the time i realised the truth it was too late. I passed 12th with first class marks, got admission to a good missionary college. During graduation at a women's college i learnt to discover the real human in me who can do every thing that a man can, can take care of parents like a son, can freak around if she wants to like a road side romeo, can get every goddie of life,thanks to the college environment. I made it to the university, i met the kind of person i was searching for as a friend from whom i can always learn, from her i learnt not to fear if you are right, to speak in gatherings, to go out and mingle up with more people, raise your voice when ever you see wrong things around you, she made me realise "think you are alone in this world so be prepared for every situation because its only you who will resolve any problem not some one else".

Now i am a professional women, here also i had to face many politics which did try to pull me back, thought of moving out of the company many times, but my previous childhood experiences reminded me to face all challenges, instead of becoming more weaker and running out of the game, i will have to survive it. Today the situation is, all my juniors come to me for any work related problems instead of approaching my boss, I am recognised as a best performer in the department, i get top ratings at office. I wish i had this kind of attitude when i was a school student then i would have defeated that class first girl. Now when i see my self and compare with that class mate of mine i feel proud, because she cannot compete with me.

There are few things in the world which is far beyond our thoughts, we see only around us, we think the whole world is against us when any thing goes wrong, even we show our anger on the Almighty, its very wrong, sinners do get punished, making some one cry for nothing will make you pay for it, that girl never got the opportunity to study after 10th std, her father became bankrupt and one day she eloped with a very cheap guy, today she is mother of two daughters.

I would conclude that be what you are, believe in what you are doing is the best, don't get bothered about things going against you, just Chuck off people who demotivates you,don't care for people who make fun of you, don't trust on any body until the person is really trust worthy, above all have full trust on GOD. It may take little time for people to understand your qualities,but one day you will be the most important to them.