I like social gathering, specially when its some kind of festival, or pooja. It gives me the opportunity to dress up, wear traditional/ethnic clothes, wear all matching ear rings, bangles etc.etc. Today was Saraswati pooja, as usual the previous night i put mehndi, applied the matching shade of nail paint, bought a new set of ear ring and necklace, did pooja at home and then went to the place where all Bengali's collectively does the pooja.
I really like social gatherings, but there are few people in such gatherings who spoils the festive mood. There is one Mr. Karmakaar about the age of around 38-39, i don't know why i have to call him dada, just because he calls my parents uncle and untie. He is always ready to give me advices in free. He want me to find a guy as soon as possible, so that i get married. He calls me and starts telling me tips to make a guy fall for me, when i didn't respond to his call, he calls my sister so that she can teach me what he had to advice me, when my sister ignores him, he goes to my mom and my mom's answer was "she is my daughter and i am aware of what is good and bad for her, you need not worry".
I don't understand one thing from where do these kind of people get time to give free advice to others. world is running on one principle, "live and let others live". If i have set up a focus for me there is no one in this world who can can change my mindset, not even my parents, so why do these kind of people bother me? Do they think that they are very good counsellor? If i have grown with my dreams will their few sentences change me? BS. Impossible. I guess this Mr. Karmakaar was a social reformer in his past life, who thinks more for others instead of his own problems.He has his own family, got a beautiful wife and a cute daughter, think of them not for the girls who are career oriented.
For me marriage lies at the end of all those dreams that i have, and the reason is...... i want to go completely devoted to my family, as i get devoted in any other dream that i have achieved.
For me marriage lies at the end of all those dreams that i have, and the reason is...... i want to go completely devoted to my family, as i get devoted in any other dream that i have achieved.
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hahah...i knw that day mr. karmakar really made me so frustated that i felt like to bang his head ,but he cud save himself jus bcoz of my moral values....anyways smthing want to share which my sis didnt mentiond here ,i told that person upfront "better u start concentrating on yr daughter bcoz anyhow shez nt going 2 achive smthing in her life ,coz u always belives grls sud get married at the age of 23,so leave us the way we r coz u r nt going to feed my sis,"n top of that my mom added marriage dosent means living with a guy,n if it is so,then my daughter cud hav managed to get such guy who r after my daugher oops nt daughter actually money,but i really want a guy who will love my daughet nt her money,nw thats real sence of marriage,so thank u have thought enough of my daughter rest of the thing ill take care off.....heheh so that day he had a nice class frm me n my mom.
hope nw in future he'll stop his free marriage councilling atleast with me n my mom.....samarpita
Dear,
Don't pay heed to them. You know whats better. We have punks every where. And all the same we have good ones too.
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