Its been a long time i haven't touched this page,but from the last few days i am so disturbed with every thing going around the world ,lets forget the world, its really very very disappointing for the educated Indians who say that they are part of the modern Indian society.Young journalist killed by her mother because she dared to love a man from a different community.
I am disappointed about the Nirupama Pathak murder case, who was studying mass communication in IIMC Delhi, the daughter was killed by her mother because she loved a man from a different community.Parents like nirupama's are burden on the educated class of India, who dreams of educating the female child, giving her the right to choose her careers but cant afford to let her select her life partner.
Its a very obvious situation, when young people in search of good jobs and careers move to different cities, meet people and colleagues from different sates, community, etc. and they like each others way of thinking and decide to spent the rest of the life together.One common excuse that parents say is that "you are not matured enough to select your life partner", bull shit, at the age of 25 if a women/man is able to live alone, take care of finances, talk to clients, bring business to India, then how come that they are not capable to select a life partner?
I am a victim of this kind of social crime, yes i would say it is a crime, when parents come in between the choice of their children, when it comes to marriage. There should be a law in the Indian constitution, where such families should be punished severely who don't allow the child to live their dreams. "Right to fall in love with whom ever u like" should be a fundamental right to all Indian citizen, because love doesn't have boundaries, its above, caste, creed, religion, nationality and sex.
I am impressed with Nirupama's boyfriend who said "humne obedient hoke galti ki, agar humne shadee kar li hoti tobaad mein sub theek ho jata". I am so lucky that my parents have also changed according to the times, they would see for where i am happy, if i am happy in marrying some one who is not from the community, caste, state,be it whatever, they would happily agree, because, they look for my smiling face, let the society go to hell.
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
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