I haven't touch this page from many days, i was not getting any thing to write, from the past few days one thing was going around my mind, all about marriage. Its a very important part of our life cycle, so of course we should not regret in the future for any decisions that we take today. There were three of us in the office cab, all girls, one got married and the other two are in the search for a groom. The common thing that i found in the conversation is that, most girls who get married at a very early age, like somewhere at the age of twenty to twenty five are the girls who either don't know what they want in life, just go along with the wind, or going against parents and marrying someone whom she loves.
The second category of girls fall in the large population, where the girls are so knowledgeable that they can judge the guys better than the parents. They are very focused on what they are actually searching in a man as a life partner. These girls face a lot of problem in the society, they are looked upon by their immediate relatives, because they wait until they reach 28-30, and sometimes above 35 years old, but they are always focused.
These marriages end up in a good married life, because the bride and the groom are well aware of what they want and what is expected out of them. I believe in knowing a person before allowing him/her to be your life partner.
I have a story here to share. There is a good family friend of ours, as usual my father has told them to search for a good alliance for me, they selected a guy, and wanted me to meet him, me and my sister met him and i was very sure that he is not the kind of person i am searching for, and my answer to this match was simply "NO". One day uncle calls up my father and says, "are decision's at your home taken by your daughter?",that was so bad- my father answered,"its my daughter who will have to live, who will marry so its left to her". I am really glad that my parents are so supportive, they make me feel so proud to have them in my life.
I am very sure all those girls above 25 will appreciate this blog. I don't mind being single, but i cant end up with any body, just because the society wants.
2 comments:
Your dad really loves you and wants what's best for you. What a blessing!
You are one amoung a million who really cares for what they are and that makes you different. I appreciate all the effort you put forward to ackwoledge the fact that girls do tend to make mistakes that cannot be repaired for a life time. And one such mistake is marrying the wrong person. Life is so much like a puzzle where if you dont fit in two pieces properly the entire puzzle remains unfinished.
Eveb men are no better in such cases. I had seen a couple who were in love for half a decade and broke up just because they couldnt dare to ask their parents out about the whole issue. If that was the case why on earth did they bother to even propose each other in the first place.
When asked they were very diplomatic in anwering the question too... Parents come first. I bet if they ever listened to their parents in their entire life. Wish you find your Mr Perfect very soon. All the best
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